Im having a dilemma now. Im starting my new job soon and at same time I have a friend who wants me to accompany her for a trip to Europe.
The problem here is, she has stage 3 lung cancer and was told by her doctors she only have about 3-6 months to live. But she still wants to go for the trip anyway.
Since Im starting a new job, I know my leave wont be approve and my friend wants to be there at least 2 weeks. And since she dont have much time, I may have to quit my job and help her fulfilled her dying wish. She has made it clear to me that she only wants to go with me and no one else. She even offered to pay for my expenses. I feel bad about that.
So shall I quit my new job to help her fulfilled her wish? Im at a loss now and I dont know what to say. She's in a very fragile state and I have to be careful with my words. I've no experience in dealing with such people. And she needs me by her side for the remaining time that she has.
Yes, Put money aside and Follow your friend, You will regret it, once she is gone!!! Sometimes you have to have more heart then being money minded! $$ can always be earned!!!
how about your online girl?
is she fit enough to go?
better just join tour ah
Originally posted by R3SsH|n:how about your online girl?
Hahaha, Yah how bout your online girl ar? Wait she jealous how? Then you will remain single forever?
the online girl and this friend of mine are the same person. yes she is my friend and yes she likes me. and so do i
Introduce her to Jesus Christ.Ask her if she is willing to receive Jesus Christ as her personal saviour.You should persuade her if she don't.
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:Im having a dilemma now. Im starting my new job soon and at same time I have a friend who wants me to accompany her for a trip to Europe.
The problem here is, she has stage 3 lung cancer and was told by her doctors she only have about 3-6 months to live. But she still wants to go for the trip anyway.
Since Im starting a new job, I know my leave wont be approve and my friend wants to be there at least 2 weeks. And since she dont have much time, I may have to quit my job and help her fulfilled her dying wish. She has made it clear to me that she only wants to go with me and no one else. She even offered to pay for my expenses. I feel bad about that.
So shall I quit my new job to help her fulfilled her wish? Im at a loss now and I dont know what to say. She's in a very fragile state and I have to be careful with my words. I've no experience in dealing with such people. And she needs me by her side for the remaining time that she has.
I don't know about you but if I have a friend like that and in such a state, has specifically requested for my company for her remaining days, I would say yes without thinking.
Originally posted by No cellphones:Introduce her to Jesus Christ.Ask her if she is willing to receive Jesus Christ as her personal saviour.You should persuade her if she don't.
Stop preaching you wanker.
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:Im having a dilemma now. Im starting my new job soon and at same time I have a friend who wants me to accompany her for a trip to Europe.
The problem here is, she has stage 3 lung cancer and was told by her doctors she only have about 3-6 months to live. But she still wants to go for the trip anyway.
Since Im starting a new job, I know my leave wont be approve and my friend wants to be there at least 2 weeks. And since she dont have much time, I may have to quit my job and help her fulfilled her dying wish. She has made it clear to me that she only wants to go with me and no one else. She even offered to pay for my expenses. I feel bad about that.
So shall I quit my new job to help her fulfilled her wish? Im at a loss now and I dont know what to say. She's in a very fragile state and I have to be careful with my words. I've no experience in dealing with such people. And she needs me by her side for the remaining time that she has.
Why don't you tell your boss about your friend situation?
Maybe he/she will allow you to take leave to accompany her..
brother, you made a difference to my life today.
who made a what to who?
go if you have to, just ask questions like, so who is paying for whose air ticket?
when overseas, object to making love to her if u have to .. because you should respect the girl's right to celibacy, after all you mentioned u were going to become celibate also since u are already in ur 30s.
i wonder how old is her.
poor thing. dying young is bad enough, cannot go to europe somemore.. and when u mentioned in another thread she confessed to liking u, both of u still dun wan to rush things.
how long can one wait before her stage 3 cancer reach stage 4? u must speed things up brother! time and tide waits for nobody!
Originally posted by gUms:Stop preaching you wanker.
You are right that I am a wanker but I have received Jesus Christ as my personal saviour without giving up my wanking.
Hope it's not one of those"I'm going to die... terminal illness, please be with me" kinda trick.
Anyways, if u like her, she likes you and her situation is real, I think it's only human of us to fullfill the wish if you can.
@No Cellphones, A good reply. I should refrain fromattacking you cos you have a good sense of humor!! Peace and keep up the Humor.
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:Im having a dilemma now. Im starting my new job soon and at same time I have a friend who wants me to accompany her for a trip to Europe.
The problem here is, she has stage 3 lung cancer and was told by her doctors she only have about 3-6 months to live. But she still wants to go for the trip anyway.
Since Im starting a new job, I know my leave wont be approve and my friend wants to be there at least 2 weeks. And since she dont have much time, I may have to quit my job and help her fulfilled her dying wish. She has made it clear to me that she only wants to go with me and no one else. She even offered to pay for my expenses. I feel bad about that.
So shall I quit my new job to help her fulfilled her wish? Im at a loss now and I dont know what to say. She's in a very fragile state and I have to be careful with my words. I've no experience in dealing with such people. And she needs me by her side for the remaining time that she has.
Do you have enough savings to last you for a year or more?
If you have, go ahead and quit your job. You can always find a new job later (though it may be difficult), but once your friend is gone she won't be back.
If she is just "another friend", you may have to think twice. But since she really needs you, and you are really that close to her, there isn't much reasons save for financial ones for you to leave her be.
Touchwood, but who knows if she will even return from this trip? If she didn't, then at least her last moments are with someone whom she wants to be with, and not alone with some random tour agency.
If you do not have enough savings, you can consider borrowing from your family or close friends, but do return the money to them once you have the financial ability to do so.
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:Im having a dilemma now. Im starting my new job soon and at same time I have a friend who wants me to accompany her for a trip to Europe.
The problem here is, she has stage 3 lung cancer and was told by her doctors she only have about 3-6 months to live. But she still wants to go for the trip anyway.
Since Im starting a new job, I know my leave wont be approve and my friend wants to be there at least 2 weeks. And since she dont have much time, I may have to quit my job and help her fulfilled her dying wish. She has made it clear to me that she only wants to go with me and no one else. She even offered to pay for my expenses. I feel bad about that.
So shall I quit my new job to help her fulfilled her wish? Im at a loss now and I dont know what to say. She's in a very fragile state and I have to be careful with my words. I've no experience in dealing with such people. And she needs me by her side for the remaining time that she has.
Yes !!! Please share the gospel with her as she's dying.
Ask her to accept Jesus as lord and saviour for eternal life.
Eternal life is very important especially for dying patients.
Its possible to travel with stage 3 lung cancer.
Do your homework.
Check out the summer season in the places you want to visit.
Inform the airlines, hotels of your special requirements. Plan for immediate evacuation home.
Get prepared for medical emergencies, locations of hospitals and clinics.
Medication, clothings, and if possible bring on another helper.
Its not impossible. Just willingness to do it.
The experience will be priceless.
Job. In Singapore don't worry about jobs.
Originally posted by Undiscoveredsoul98:the online girl and this friend of mine are the same person. yes she is my friend and yes she likes me. and so do i
wah!!! stage 3 lung cancer with 3-6 months to live..no wonder you in a dilemma la...
anyway just go la...job can always find another one...friends...well..they are a lifetime (no pun intended..)
To those who always ask pple to convert to christian , you pple are just pathetic . What makes you so sure that you will have eternal life after you die ? Have you died before , if not what makes you so sure it exist Why are you all so desperate to convert pple to your religion ? The problem now is whether should the TS go on with his new job or accompany the ger . Not whether to make her go into any religon or not . Anyway in my case i would accompany her if she is close to me , if she really like me or is my girlfriend . Job can always find again but not a life . Since she is dying then we should make her happy while she is still alive . Ignore those who keep asking pple to convert to christian .
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:If I were you, I would just go… some things in life are worth more than money and once it’s gone, you’ll never get it back… Don’t say job ah, if one day my girlfriend needs a new heart, I also willing to give her my heart and die… Live life without regrets…
don't pretent to be such a nice guy.
you will just go and find a new gf and dump her
Originally posted by TWE:To those who always ask pple to convert to christian , you pple are just pathetic . What makes you so sure that you will have eternal life after you die ? Have you died before , if not what makes you so sure it exist Why are you all so desperate to convert pple to your religion ? The problem now is whether should the TS go on with his new job or accompany the ger . Not whether to make her go into any religon or not . Anyway in my case i would accompany her if she is close to me , if she really like me or is my girlfriend . Job can always find again but not a life . Since she is dying then we should make her happy while she is still alive . Ignore those who keep asking pple to convert to christian .
I think you have to be fair here, it is part of a christian duty to ask people to join them, to them, the mission is to save as much people as possible. But then, on the other hand, it is up to you to join or not, there is no force issue as to someone putting a gun on your head to ask you to join or face a bullet in your head ya.
Sure, no one can tell u what happen after death, no even the hindu, the buddhist, and so on. But religion is a believe and a faith, if people are inclined to it, so be it. And there is never any ill intention in asking people to join, aint it?
Dying will happen to everyone, by weighing the pros and cons, TS should be able to decide for himself whether to accompany her thru her last days or be more wise to take care of the alive rather than those going to die. But if TS is going to regret and feel remorseful after her death, then better be with her. Make issue simple ya