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ermmm...U work until people wanna beat u up....r u realli that jia lat?
perhaps u should start by accepting the HARDEST TRUTHS...adapt and be a better person....only when that happens....u will then be able to think on your feet again..and be the most lovable person...
whats diploma of ITE???
Anyway, suck it up. at least you have a job. Stop thinking you're stupid, people around you aren't that smart either. You can always try to socialise more with your colleagues, like having lunch with them or something. =)
republic poly ah lol. Their opening made a lot of diplomas lower their value.....or rather, slower in attaining a higher value.
Anyway, change job la.
ya change job or company la,so many admin job out there.scare cannot find 1?
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today i ate a bun and thought of u.....lol
wah why u change job so many time? maybe the problem is you?
Xiao Bun Bun
You sound like my friend, also in same situation like you
Anyway,
i am thinking you should sit down and think through why are you in such a situation?
Sort them out one by one and list the roots to them
That should help & you will stop thinking you are stupid
No one is stupid, Only Lazy
ya.....be the lovable xiao bun bun ....and not lazy bum bum
there's a whole lot of other jobs out there, why stay in this hell-like place?
Please dont think you are "too stupid" for anything......and by the way, most times, success is not determined by who is smarter and who is not........but determined by who is more diligent and can persevere....
Dont worry....Im sure you can do it.
nvm la . jus go internet find ,slowly find.
In the office, the smart ones act dumb.
Be clever, but don't be too clever.
ya.....kiang doh ho...mai geh kiang
Originally posted by XiaoBunbun:Recently, I got a job and this job makes me feel stupid and even act stupid ... like more than ever!
I got verbally abuse by both the senior and junior predecessors. But the junior one is much more irritating as his/her position is lower than mine and I could sense his/her s_______ from afar and yet he/she dares to talk down to me. I was actually glad he/she left but on his/her last day, this new person who only came a few days before me but yet integrated into the job pretty well, sort of stab me right in front of him/her and that crazy junior stood up from his/her seat and shouted at me with an expression like he/she wanted to beat me up so much.
The new person was really competent and street smart and I do not think I could measure up to him/her. He/she achieved a high gpa at a polytechnic that everyone calls the diploma of ITE. (Green is the colour) And all I have is a Higher Nitec and a partial professional accounting certificate. Everyone in the office likes him/her a lot.
Add to that, I'm not very experience and/or smart person that reads people well or maybe even my work. I ask stupid questions and get them all riled up. It seems like I don't even deserve to go for studies as many jobs previously held thought I am uneducated and even discourage me to drop out of school.
I don't understand loads of things at work and this job demands me to be as independent as possible.
After getting this job, lots of people that I met recently puts me down (really furiously), I even got my stepmum angry at me and she threatens that if I don't properly utilize my brains, I would be thrown out of the house because I shamed her. (She's a personification of Narcissus)
Sometimes I don't know what kind of job I could do well in without getting into trouble or even passing. I am really envious of people that could think on their feet.
Haiz, u write so long n so longwinded.
"U r wat u believe u r". So continue lah, if u still think u r failure, u canot do tis or tat, u will continue to be a loser.
Say tis "I am successful, I can do tis, I can do tat. I believe in myself". Then a lot of good thing will come to u. Dun believe? Ok, try the way u been using all the while, see what good benefit it do to u all these years.
1) You are not stupid
2) I was from that green school. Green school people are highly independant and seek for answers themselves.
3) Your empolyer does not value your curiousity, eager and willingness to learn.
4) You need to adapt in this environment because life is 100x worst than your current situation.
5) Your current situation will make you stronger in life, in general
6) Your position requires you to be independant. Tell them: "If I do not know the stuff, how am I going to help you". They will be more willing to teach you.
todae i ate a bun and think of you again....
BUN BUN......see so many ppl give u advice.....donch feel toopid ok?
i am stupid for an office job too, careless to my work, always mistake. Colleague stab my back , sigh, feeling pressure, should i change my job?
Do you think in another office you won't make mistake and be careless?
You make mistake because your hands are doing something, you mind is thinking something else.
You must concentrate on the task at hand.
Surely you can do that.
And don't get any other ideas.