what should i do?
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okay so things go like this :
there's a girl who has an ex that keeps on harassing her, like telling her to go back to him or else he would hurt her. she told him several times no, no and no. yet, he disturbs her and even shamed her in front of th entire canteen( im a student btw), throws books at her, etc. i know this girl, and whenever i see her getting harassed like this, i feel like helping her. her ex is a gangster-look alike, but i'm not sure if he's really one since i don't know him well. okay before i go on i want to clarify a few things: 1) I am NOT in love with her
2) I am NOT afraid of that dick ( the boy)
allow me to go on. so what i am thinking of doing right now is, doing exactly what the dick did to her. in chinese, its called 以牙还牙. so yeah, i'm thinking of using my fists to talk to this dick. i know by now, many readers would think i'm a "step" or "act-beng-buey-beng" or perhaps, a "real gangster". but i would like to say that i'm neither. i somehow got this overwhelming feeling to help her, and i'm willing to do it at all costs, even if it means knocking on his darn door and confronting him or bashing that dick's head with a glass bottle. i do not know why, and i am really clenching my teeth as i'm typing right now. but this isn't what i want to know, what i want to know is should i or should i not help her. if no, i'll be seeing her getting bullied everyday and i'll not have a day of peace. if yes, how? fists?straighten it out?
your time for reading this is much appreciated. thank you, cheers and happy chinese new year!!
P.S please don't flame me or scold me if this post has somehow offended you. please don't post any hurtful stuff, just tell me what should i do. once again, thank you
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if you beat him, you don't think with your brain, if the case goes to court, you may go to juvenile court and perhaps your future may get doomed. my word of advice, use your brain to resolve problems, not your fists.
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Her ex is acting like a wounded animal. His pride is greatly hurt by her rejection.
If you pick a fight with him, you will only fuel more retaliation, as you are a guy.
Where are her parents and girl friends ? Why arn't they protecting her ?
The next time you see him do it again, have a man to man talk with him.
A hostile person is one with huge insecurities within him. A person get hostile and act aggressive because he doesn't know what to do to handle the situation properly.
Let him know that hostility will not win a girl's heart. He should be doing the exact opposite instead.
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thanks for the replies :)
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report police case. coleved. why bother to even think. that's a court. no not basket ball court. its either a court or a juvenile one. see how tame he can be in front of the police.
he got any freinds? tell him to call them all. you fix the place they can fix the time.
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what's this? secondary school bgr? dude if you don't even like her just mind your own business. dial 999 next time you see the "harassing" happening, thats the best way not to get into further trouble and help the girl at the same time.