wasting time n money to chase girls..
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What will be "not waste time and money"? What type of return is it base upon?
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basically, i think everything has it return, just that pple never realize it, but dun take us gal as commodity or some $$ investment, we are also human, like your mother, sister and nieces, it is not so nice.
Even if you chase us, used some money, but still fail, take it as a lesson, an experience, a process that you actually undertake, and as for failing is the begining of success, you will gain experiences and be more better and skilful in chasing gal.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
basically, i think everything has it return, just that pple never realize it, but dun take us gal as commodity or some $$ investment, we are also human, like your mother, sister and nieces, it is not so nice.
Even if you chase us, used some money, but still fail, take it as a lesson, an experience, a process that you actually undertake, and as for failing is the begining of success, you will gain experiences and be more better and skilful in chasing gal.
So what types of returns then is/are reasonable ?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
So what types of returns then is/are reasonable ?
as i say, i hate the word return on human relationship. but if you really want to know, the return can help you make more friends, more networks and certainly more option for you to pick and choose, even so, you dun hv to pick and choose if you choose not to, and remain single.The stigma of guy is that whenever a gal decided to go out with him, he thinks of having a gf, of love, sex and marriage, which is wrong, you should think of making friend, then from within hopefully the relationship can blossom toward the next stage. Guys who dated me are mostly very nervous, they dun treat me as fren, like I am some princess that need to take super care of. Keep asking "Angel, are you hungry, are you thirsty, you want to the lady, or are you tired...and so on"" that is not what we want, today, we gals can paid and even spend a dinner for our friend, be it guy or gal, so you dun have to spend on gal, just relax and treat us as your normal natural fren, because we feel very uneasy if you treat us like princess, very unnatural in a sense, then we reject the next date, and the guy start to have wild illusion of losing love, gf, hopes and so on...but it is only one time going out...aiyo.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
as i say, i hate the word return on human relationship. but if you really want to know, the return can help you make more friends, more networks and certainly more option for you to pick and choose, even so, you dun hv to pick and choose if you choose not to, and remain single.The stigma of guy is that whenever a gal decided to go out with him, he thinks of having a gf, of love, sex and marriage, which is wrong, you should think of making friend, then from within hopefully the relationship can blossom toward the next stage. Guys who dated me are mostly very nervous, they dun treat me as fren, like I am some princess that need to take super care of. Keep asking "Angel, are you hungry, are you thirsty, you want to the lady, or are you tired...and so on"" that is not what we want, today, we gals can paid and even spend a dinner for our friend, be it guy or gal, so you dun have to spend on gal, just relax and treat us as your normal natural fren, because we feel very uneasy if you treat us like princess, very unnatural in a sense, then we reject the next date, and the guy start to have wild illusion of losing love, gf, hopes and so on...but it is only one time going out...aiyo.
So the benefits received were more frens and network....ok, fair enough.
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Master of hwa mountain Nunnery Monastary: Go Lingmei, Go and open yourself to the world
Lingmei: But Master, I want to be with you, I am scare of the outside world without you.
Master: Nonsense, you were taught that nothing last forever, you need to do your duty to save people from their suffering and illusion of life. Make yourself available to many, for the more people you engage, the more you can save, do not judge people by the way they talk, action and way of life. You must hv a wide spread of people from all walk of life to fully understand the meaning of life. Help those who need help, and spread the doctrine to those who do not need help but still dreaming.
Lingmei: Oh, so master, you booked for me ChinaAirline or SIA?
Master: Actually, Lingmei, to tell you the true, without you, I will be the most happiest. GET OUT!!
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Master of hwa mountain Nunnery Monastary: Go Lingmei, Go and open yourself to the world
Lingmei: But Master, I want to be with you, I am scare of the outside world without you.
Master: Nonsense, you were taught that nothing last forever, you need to do your duty to save people from their suffering and illusion of life. Make yourself available to many, for the more people you engage, the more you can save, do not judge people by the way they talk, action and way of life. You must hv a wide spread of people from all walk of life to fully understand the meaning of life. Help those who need help, and spread the doctrine to those who do not need help but still dreaming.
Lingmei: Oh, so master, you booked for me ChinaAirline or SIA?
Master: Actually, Lingmei, to tell you the true, without you, I will be the most happiest. GET OUT!!
The lotus flower blossom from the muddy pond....
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Originally posted by angel7030:
as i say, i hate the word return on human relationship. but if you really want to know, the return can help you make more friends, more networks and certainly more option for you to pick and choose, even so, you dun hv to pick and choose if you choose not to, and remain single.The stigma of guy is that whenever a gal decided to go out with him, he thinks of having a gf, of love, sex and marriage, which is wrong, you should think of making friend, then from within hopefully the relationship can blossom toward the next stage. Guys who dated me are mostly very nervous, they dun treat me as fren, like I am some princess that need to take super care of. Keep asking "Angel, are you hungry, are you thirsty, you want to the lady, or are you tired...and so on"" that is not what we want, today, we gals can paid and even spend a dinner for our friend, be it guy or gal, so you dun have to spend on gal, just relax and treat us as your normal natural fren, because we feel very uneasy if you treat us like princess, very unnatural in a sense, then we reject the next date, and the guy start to have wild illusion of losing love, gf, hopes and so on...but it is only one time going out...aiyo.
so better don;t start -
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
so better don;t start
ya, so now u understand why i never accept your date ya -
Originally posted by angel7030:
ya, so now u understand why i never accept your date ya
come one you pose so well for my photo shoots. no those wasn't any dates. we don;t date. jus take photos only. hehehe -
i mean those red dates for soup, you wanted to give to me, i do not need it, cos i use Ginseng
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Originally posted by Gno25:
really a waste of efforts.. suay if u kana gals who got no ethics, if they dun like u they will just enjoy the process of courtship without agreeing anything, then later say not compatible.
then get a blow doll. but blow doll got danger also. later ram too hard will burst off. -
What is considered wasting time/$ ? What if the girl become a good fren instead? Is that still considered as wasting time/$ ?
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in today prospect, time=money, the time lost can mean the chance of earning more money lost...
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Originally posted by angel7030:
as i say, i hate the word return on human relationship. but if you really want to know, the return can help you make more friends, more networks and certainly more option for you to pick and choose, even so, you dun hv to pick and choose if you choose not to, and remain single.The stigma of guy is that whenever a gal decided to go out with him, he thinks of having a gf, of love, sex and marriage, which is wrong, you should think of making friend, then from within hopefully the relationship can blossom toward the next stage. Guys who dated me are mostly very nervous, they dun treat me as fren, like I am some princess that need to take super care of. Keep asking "Angel, are you hungry, are you thirsty, you want to the lady, or are you tired...and so on"" that is not what we want, today, we gals can paid and even spend a dinner for our friend, be it guy or gal, so you dun have to spend on gal, just relax and treat us as your normal natural fren, because we feel very uneasy if you treat us like princess, very unnatural in a sense, then we reject the next date, and the guy start to have wild illusion of losing love, gf, hopes and so on...but it is only one time going out...aiyo.
if I were to date you I will just give you 1 tight slap
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then no choice, i kick you in between your legs lor...with
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I still think that being single is the best....like I said before: need to have alot of frens....so that won't be lonely....
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
I still think that being single is the best....like I said before: need to have alot of frens....so that won't be lonely....
but friends all busy and got bf/gf no time to bother about you how? -
ya, i use to visit those old folks home, many single old folks there really enjoy life together...clap hands, sing songs and play passing orange game.
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Originally posted by goodheart:
but friends all busy and got bf/gf no time to bother about you how?I mean find frens that decided to stay single also lar....Hahaha!
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Originally posted by angel7030:
ya, i use to visit those old folks home, many single old folks there really enjoy life together...clap hands, sing songs and play passing orange game.
Hahaha!
At least its a good and happy ending.... -
Originally posted by Demon Bane:
I mean find frens that decided to stay single also lar....Hahaha!
most people are either attached or married -
Originally posted by angel7030:
ya, i use to visit those old folks home, many single old folks there really enjoy life together...clap hands, sing songs and play passing orange game.
than when 1 day their kids stop paying money to the old folk home, they will throw them out to sleep on the streets -
ya, so, Can I meet you at the old folk home, if we remain single all the way? then we can clap hands, sing songs and play game together, maybe we can surf the net and post together too...hahaha
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Originally posted by goodheart:
most people are either attached or marriedMake more frens using facebook or twitter loh....so many still singles mah...