really a waste of efforts.. suay if u kana gals who got no ethics, if they dun like u they will just enjoy the process of courtship without agreeing anything, then later say not compatible.
You made a account just for this ?
Why chase girls when you can make them chase you?
If you are a man who believe ethics is important in a companion then use your own perception. Besides, its not like you have to find someone to marry you in a day. Take time and talk.
got a prob with that ttfu?
U butthurt ?
its not easy to perceive pple, especially if they are not simple.. more so if u add in emotions.. suxx..
ttfu, seriously whats ur prob? i see u very lao jiao here after so much posts, but i beginner cannot meh
Den don't chase lor.
Nobardie force you wat?
My heart turned cold after reading this post....
why chase leh just be friend lor
tell her i not chasing u har, i just want companionship only
for playing online game lah, going shopping lah, watch movies lah
dont have to meet very often one ma
if she want then be friend lor, dont want then forget it lor
Originally posted by Gno25:really a waste of efforts.. suay if u kana gals who got no ethics, if they dun like u they will just enjoy the process of courtship without agreeing anything, then later say not compatible.
How much money did the girls cheat you?
ya man.. somemore in the process everybody know u failed.. so sia suay
botakhead: all the activities also need $$ and time mah.. den u also dun wan the gals to think u are scrooge because u dun wana pay for them
single_alone: dun worry, i wasnt stupid to let her cheat. its just that during times like xmas n birthday need to buy gifts mah. haiz but its so not worth it...
Relationship is not like an investment, most of the time we dun get any returns....
things had changed bro. both ger n guy got earning power less those no money type. u think they r not out to cheat ur hard earn money? don't be a carrot head ok. be smart.
Originally posted by playmemory:things had changed bro. both ger n guy got earning power less those no money type. u think they r not out to cheat ur hard earn money? don't be a carrot head ok. be smart.
playmemory: its not the $ they cheat bro, its the process they enjoy, and in the mist of it played with ur feelings..
Originally posted by Gno25:playmemory: its not the $ they cheat bro, its the process they enjoy, and in the mist of it played with ur feelings..
Perhaps you are looking at the wrong places....not all girls cheat $....sometimes its the other way round....hahaha!
demon bane: yes i do realise its the wrong one.. n thats y i'm saying those without ethics.
you also enjoy mah and you also learn something mah.... so take it as fees to learn something loh
Originally posted by Gno25:demon bane: yes i do realise its the wrong one.. n thats y i'm saying those without ethics.
So how much $ are you being cheated? Why u give her $ in the first place? How did you found out that she was unethical?
it depends on how you look at it. Ethics? Subjective. You take a girl out for movies and dinners, cost you a lot of time and money and then say bye bye at the end of the day. That's cheating you? It may be a different perspective for the girl. She may have finally decided you are not the one for her and bye bye.
I believe most girls are not desperate to the extent of freeloading off another person by offering hours of company. They would rather spend time with a person they like than do that.
Originally posted by Rock^Star:it depends on how you look at it. Ethics? Subjective. You take a girl out for movies and dinners, cost you a lot of time and money and then say bye bye at the end of the day. That's cheating you? It may be a different perspective for the girl. She may have finally decided you are not the one for her and bye bye.
I believe most girls are not desperate to the extent of freeloading off another person by offering hours of company. They would rather spend time with a person they like than do that.
Agreed....how about those who went out with you for a few months then said bye bye leh?
demon bane: no lah she didnt cheat for any money. its just that i feel not worth it.
rock star: i totally agree with u. i guess i'm just suay to pick on someone who's not 'most' girls. i can tell u she didnt even wanted to go out with me in the first place. she just kept saying busy which i tot its true, but nevertheless kept leading me on making me think that i have some hope. perhaps, she does that for the attention n enjoyed the process.
Originally posted by Gno25:demon bane: no lah she didnt cheat for any money. its just that i feel not worth it.
rock star: i totally agree with u. i guess i'm just suay to pick on someone who's not 'most' girls. i can tell u she didnt even wanted to go out with me in the first place. she just kept saying busy which i tot its true, but nevertheless kept leading me on making me think that i have some hope. perhaps, she does that for the attention n enjoyed the process.
Some girls like to be woo-ed and enjoy being in the limelight....usually these type of girls target rich guys, maybe she din want to go out with you becos you are not rich? Anyway, stay away....I'm sure you'll find someone worthwhile and truthful!
Originally posted by Demon Bane:Agreed....how about those who went out with you for a few months then said bye bye leh?
Well, she may have been wishy washy thinking if you are the right one for her. If fate is meant to be, it's meant to be. Don't think too much about the money wasted because it prevents your true love from appearing.
Originally posted by Rock^Star:Well, she may have been wishy washy thinking if you are the right one for her. If fate is meant to be, it's meant to be. Don't think too much about the money wasted because it prevents your true love from appearing.
Yeah you've got a point there! But how much $ wasted would be too much?