being single initially, i plan to just go overseas to complete my attachment, without any qualms. now, i met this woman and felt really good about her, though i duno abt her feelings, if she's interested i'll feel sad cos i'm leaving, not interested i also feel sad. now i'm starting to get a bit depressed maybe, but still wanna go overseas cos it's too late to change anything..
communication wise, between the 2 of us, can't say everyday also communicate with one another, on off, but we've went out once recently and i felt it was ok leh... we sent long msges on fb initially but start to die off also. sms wise also not very sustainable den i have to initiate again. how to know whether is she interested in me? though i dun wana rush things but i dun hv time le.. just wanna find out if it's possible but duno how also... haha..
any1 has a similar situation as mine and care to share how u overcome it?
u both can also keep in touch through msn & facebook even if u go overseas
it's only a matter of whether u have interest in that relationship
Dun worry, you go overseas, you can see lots of gals there, much much more than Singapore, nicely looking too. Think out of the box ya
Originally posted by JerryJan:u both can also keep in touch through msn & facebook even if u go overseas
it's only a matter of whether u have interest in that relationship
Auntie, facebook got touch one meh?? then you better be touchbook founder lor
go overseas,
intro her to me
i'll help you take good care of her
ya, and when you come back, you can take her back together with a baby bear as free gift
from personal experience, i'll suggest that u give up now. no point pursuing a long distance relationship, i would say it would fail most of the time. but den again, it depends on how long u will be away and how strong is she. and of cos, u mus ask urself, will be succumb to temptations overseas. what i would suggest will be keeping in touch with her thru out and who knows what might happen when u come back.
jus my 2 cents worth.
so best thing now is to just maintain current status, continue going out, when i'm there, keep in touch with her all the way and see how it goes when i come back? i'll be away for 6 mths..
yea, i can't do much if i'm overseas anyway, she's attractive but luckily she's single now.. see how ba...
what i would suggest will be keeping in touch with her thru out and who knows what might happen when u come back
ok, i feel bad towards her if other girls date me out and i agree.. is that normal?? lol...
I think you better make your intentions clear to her and find out if she's interested in being with you first. Then you can decide without regrets.
Originally posted by Awayfromsg11:being single initially, i plan to just go overseas to complete my attachment, without any qualms. now, i met this woman and felt really good about her, though i duno abt her feelings, if she's interested i'll feel sad cos i'm leaving, not interested i also feel sad. now i'm starting to get a bit depressed maybe, but still wanna go overseas cos it's too late to change anything..
communication wise, between the 2 of us, can't say everyday also communicate with one another, on off, but we've went out once recently and i felt it was ok leh... we sent long msges on fb initially but start to die off also. sms wise also not very sustainable den i have to initiate again. how to know whether is she interested in me? though i dun wana rush things but i dun hv time le.. just wanna find out if it's possible but duno how also... haha..
any1 has a similar situation as mine and care to share how u overcome it?
If she want you, she will wait for you to return.
If she fickle minded, she wont wait for you to return.
As what forumers suggest, msm or fb to keep in touch.
Bear in mind, your studies is more important right now.
That is your future.
Originally posted by angel7030:
Auntie, facebook got touch one meh?? then you better be touchbook founder lor
Who say cannot?
Me also chat with my kids in fb.
How long you going for your exchange? Forever?
she also worry you go to new place and pickup new girls...
Wah lau eh, you think overseas so easy to pick up girls meh? Watch too many hollywood movies already lah, angelina jolie pick up johnny depp on the train is more believeable, geez.
lol :-D
I would not mind Johnny Depp picking me up :-P
When johnny depp picks you up, I'll be having a ONS with angelina.
Originally posted by ditzy:When johnny depp picks you up, I'll be having a ONS with angelina.
ON!
ahhh, mixed signals mixed signals by her.. sian la...
women, aside, now family also got prob, parents old le, illnesses coming in.. but i still havn grad.. dammit la...
Study hard get a good results, come out working, good salary.
Sure many girls will go after you.