My neighbour is an ex-hooker, she just moved in about a week ago, somehow another neighbour recognised her as working an a bar a few years ago ..... she's working in an office now, the other neighbours are getting so worked up about it !!!!
I don't get it, what's the big deal, she's started a new a life already why are on her case so much, i kinda feel sorry for her ..... i have seen some peeps giving her dirty looks and being mean to her in the lift
i think those neighbours who saw her working in the bar, were actually bar goers and more afraid that she will exposed their doings..
maybe ..... i dunno . but why are they taking it our on her then if she is just doing her job ?
so small world.
how convenient, no need to go geyland or joo chiat,
work in a bar does not mean must be a hooker, me also work in bar mah, there are so many tasks and jobs in a bar, hookers actually outsider who paid the bar bosses so that they can mingle and prey for stupid men in the bar to part their money, they are the bar employees hor.
Oops sori, i mean they are not the bar employees
1 bar = 14.7 psi
if work in bar is consider hooker, then my wash plate and glass aunties working for me also hookers lor...haiz, singaporeans, simply cannot open up.
I putting both my hand up to agrea with what angel7030 say. working in bar mean being a hooker meh? come on la... its 2011 liao. open up abit
btw, u oso not respecting her a lot by calling her "hooker"
so ur neighbour patronised the bar she worked at before? If not how he know lol.
Originally posted by FireIce:btw, u oso not respecting her a lot by calling her "hooker"
btw, there is a occupation in Jurong ice factory also know as hooker, these men, muscular but ugly hook ice in blocks everyday into lorries so as to send ice to all over singapore including my pub here, and there are also women working as helper.
intro to the ts of this thread...
got discount bo?
most importantly is that she should not mind those perceptions...and work hard towards realizing her dreams and true life objectives....she might as well give up and go back to her old ways if she has been contented with life as a "hooker"...
do not let rest or be contented till you achieve what is true to you
i am also ex hooker.
in bowling?
Nah she turn over a new leaf
so dun care here lor....
ppl mean to her is their problem not ur
unless u like that lady
btw, u oso not respecting her a lot by calling her "hooker"
so right fireandice, my sincerest apologies
She never was a hooker in the real sense of the word, more like a paid mistress
bus and soccer
the answer is yes I do like her as a friend, she is smart, funny and not a petty person, we did talk about her past
she came from a bad home ( abuse , sexual and physical )
it was a long time ago , she had no money and no where to live, she worked as a hostess( cos they paid daily ) to make rent and pay bills until she got education and job so that she could quit. Never had a real boyfriend during that time, just supporters "sugar daddies" who helped her out financially ,over a period of time like a year or longer but never per hour sex
Originally posted by just vic here:My neighbour is an ex-hooker, she just moved in about a week ago, somehow another neighbour recognised her as working an a bar a few years ago ..... she's working in an office now, the other neighbours are getting so worked up about it !!!!
I don't get it, what's the big deal, she's started a new a life already why are on her case so much, i kinda feel sorry for her ..... i have seen some peeps giving her dirty looks and being mean to her in the lift
Another neighbour probably scare that she might go tell his wife.
That's why all the bad mouthing going on.
Originally posted by just vic here:btw, u oso not respecting her a lot by calling her "hooker"
so right fireandice, my sincerest apologies
She never was a hooker in the real sense of the word, more like a paid mistress
bus and soccer
the answer is yes I do like her as a friend, she is smart, funny and not a petty person, we did talk about her past
she came from a bad home ( abuse , sexual and physical )
it was a long time ago , she had no money and no where to live, she worked as a hostess( cos they paid daily ) to make rent and pay bills until she got education and job so that she could quit. Never had a real boyfriend during that time, just supporters "sugar daddies" who helped her out financially ,over a period of time like a year or longer but never per hour sex
how about per day sex?? I believe we should give everyone a chance in their life, be it a hooker, a yellow ribbon guy or a former bad gal like me.
no angel she was a kept woman . usually a year or longer .
I am going back to vietnam ( where I work ) soon. I kinda feel bad cos we have a really good friendship . Dun want her to feel so alone
Hey Vic, I'm so happy to hear you are so lovely to her. In Singapore, unfortunately, we are bred to conform, bunch together and gossip, if I may be so bold to say. Do stay in touch with her. Everyone has their own story, we are in no position to judge. She seems more pleasant than others without the traumatic background. =)
Originally posted by just vic here:Dun want her to feel so alone
Intro her to some good friends lo... forum here got a lot of nice guys/girls de...... =P