How do I say nicely not interested in Lady Fren rekomen?
-
As you know, last time I ask a co worker out and she turn out to be my cousin's bride. So embarassing. So I feel sad because I choose the wrong lady to ask out. I ask some of my friends for advice.
Then one day we friends go out and then one of my close friend Mr A, he bring out a nice lady, Ms B to join us gang of friends for makan. She purposely sit next to me. So I speak to her and find out more about her. She turn out to be older than me but she is nice person. So I am glad to make a new friend. But afterward, when I meet Mr A again, he keep on promoting Ms B to me. He keep on saying how homely, filial and good cook she is. I very appreciate what Mr A is helping me and I really appreciate to get to know Ms B. But we went out couple of time as a group and I get to know her by talking to her, I try to be nice to her and not be rude, I just not really feel the chemistry. Not just the physical attraction (I of course not looking for pretty girl) also not feel the spiritual attraction. Yes, she is nice lady but I dont know why, I just don't feel interested, only interested in making friend with her.
So now how do I tell Mr A that I am just only making friend and not interested in Ms B, without offending him?
-
Tell ur friend straight in the face...and ask him to relay the message over....dun waste time...longer u drag this, the worse it will turns out to be....later she thought u baiting her only...><"
-
Originally posted by Julian.khor:
As you know, last time I ask a co worker out and she turn out to be my cousin's bride. So embarassing. So I feel sad because I choose the wrong lady to ask out. I ask some of my friends for advice.
Then one day we friends go out and then one of my close friend Mr A, he bring out a nice lady, Ms B to join us gang of friends for makan. She purposely sit next to me. So I speak to her and find out more about her. She turn out to be older than me but she is nice person. So I am glad to make a new friend. But afterward, when I meet Mr A again, he keep on promoting Ms B to me. He keep on saying how homely, filial and good cook she is. I very appreciate what Mr A is helping me and I really appreciate to get to know Ms B. But we went out couple of time as a group and I get to know her by talking to her, I try to be nice to her and not be rude, I just not really feel the chemistry. Not just the physical attraction (I of course not looking for pretty girl) also not feel the spiritual attraction. Yes, she is nice lady but I dont know why, I just don't feel interested, only interested in making friend with her.
So now how do I tell Mr A that I am just only making friend and not interested in Ms B, without offending him?
Lie to him and tell him you are interested in someone already. It may be a lie, but it does help to prevent any unhappiness which may occur if you were to tell him directly that you are not interested in Miss B.
-
just tell him the truth lor.
that you appreciate his "matchmaking", but you are not interested in Ms B lor.
-
ask him to intro other girls
-
Just straight forward to Mr A that the type of pretty is not the pretty type you are looking for. You are feeling for the right chemistry.
Although the right chemistry may not necessary bring happiness and wrong chemistry may not necessary produces disaster. -
tell A you only interested in him
-
Originally posted by PedoBear:
tell A you only interested in him
A will stay away from TS for the rest of his life.
-
Originally posted by Julian.khor:
As you know, last time I ask a co worker out and she turn out to be my cousin's bride. So embarassing. So I feel sad because I choose the wrong lady to ask out. I ask some of my friends for advice.
Then one day we friends go out and then one of my close friend Mr A, he bring out a nice lady, Ms B to join us gang of friends for makan. She purposely sit next to me. So I speak to her and find out more about her. She turn out to be older than me but she is nice person. So I am glad to make a new friend. But afterward, when I meet Mr A again, he keep on promoting Ms B to me. He keep on saying how homely, filial and good cook she is. I very appreciate what Mr A is helping me and I really appreciate to get to know Ms B. But we went out couple of time as a group and I get to know her by talking to her, I try to be nice to her and not be rude, I just not really feel the chemistry. Not just the physical attraction (I of course not looking for pretty girl) also not feel the spiritual attraction. Yes, she is nice lady but I dont know why, I just don't feel interested, only interested in making friend with her.
So now how do I tell Mr A that I am just only making friend and not interested in Ms B, without offending him?
If she likes you, then you should give it a try at going into a relationship with her.If not, then you have nothing to worry about.
Unless you think she likes you?
-
Originally posted by Julian.khor:
As you know, last time I ask a co worker out and she turn out to be my cousin's bride. So embarassing. So I feel sad because I choose the wrong lady to ask out. I ask some of my friends for advice.
Then one day we friends go out and then one of my close friend Mr A, he bring out a nice lady, Ms B to join us gang of friends for makan. She purposely sit next to me. So I speak to her and find out more about her. She turn out to be older than me but she is nice person. So I am glad to make a new friend. But afterward, when I meet Mr A again, he keep on promoting Ms B to me. He keep on saying how homely, filial and good cook she is. I very appreciate what Mr A is helping me and I really appreciate to get to know Ms B. But we went out couple of time as a group and I get to know her by talking to her, I try to be nice to her and not be rude, I just not really feel the chemistry. Not just the physical attraction (I of course not looking for pretty girl) also not feel the spiritual attraction. Yes, she is nice lady but I dont know why, I just don't feel interested, only interested in making friend with her.
So now how do I tell Mr A that I am just only making friend and not interested in Ms B, without offending him?
Just tell you friend about it. In a tactful way without ever making yourself look ugly. For instances, "I only want to be friend, no further relatinship." -
Tell your friend that as a couple with his lady fren, you are not interested, but as fren, not a problem.
and then ask him, whether can give you more gals to choose and pick or not? one gal, not much choice lah. If you want, my place here got many gals, can pick and choose, if all cannot, i am still around.
-
Originally posted by PedoBear:
tell A you only interested in him
Hahahahaha! -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Tell your friend that as a couple with his lady fren, you are not interested, but as fren, not a problem.
and then ask him, whether can give you more gals to choose and pick or not? one gal, not much choice lah. If you want, my place here got many gals, can pick and choose, if all cannot, i am still around.
Send me the photos.I want to choose one for myself too.
-
no need to choos lah. unless they spend money hundreds and thousands for makeouver and studio adjusted lightings the face is also like that one lah no matter who take.
-
Originally posted by PedoBear:
tell A you only interested in him
-
Ts should not broad over this issue.
Just tell your friend sincerly and she will understand.
-
sometimes you have to raise your tone. you tok to them nice nice they keep demanding and use that bossy tone on you. when you raise your tone they know you are really pissed off. especiallythose who used to be bosses in compnaies get shouted at by bosses and in turn shout at subordinates one. they also think eveyrone in the world owe them the world. us ethe tone and they will know who the boss.