If u want to overcome ... - first and foremost understand that you are caught up in the game of who is better, and this comparing is extremely unhealthy.
The fact that u consider that you are paid lowly is merely an excuse. The reality is you are impoverished on the inside.
Comparison has made it worse. Till u drop comparing and do your own thing - the misery will never go away.
There is always going to be someone better paid, someone better looking, .... what are you going to do?
This is the sickness of today's so-called modern living. It is ok to be to aspire to be ... or have something but it is never ok to go on comparing and fighting and wishing. It is the latter which is the undoing of a person cos it is psychological and if unrecognized becomes a habit.
Like that feel stressed I really worried for you later on in life.
don't worry lah..
your $420 will grow to more depending on your performance at the end of the 2yrs
Private Rank = +$20
1 yr soldier = +$20
LCP Rank = +$20
CPL = +$20/$30 (unsure)
CFC = +$25/$30 (unsure)
I not sure of CPL since I rejected promotion by not taking NAFA test.. Lol..
Unsure of CFC, since only the top of each brigade will be awared Coporal First Class yearly..
You can save a lot of $ even if you're taking $400/month..just stay in camp, take SFI food lor since they are free to begin with.
Just pray to god that time pass-by faster and start taking off/leave 2 months prior to ORD to start applying for job interviews
Originally posted by Fugazzi:If u want to overcome ... - first and foremost understand that you are caught up in the game of who is better, and this comparing is extremely unhealthy.
The fact that u consider that you are paid lowly is merely an excuse. The reality is you are impoverished on the inside.
Comparison has made it worse. Till u drop comparing and do your own thing - the misery will never go away.
There is always going to be someone better paid, someone better looking, .... what are you going to do?
This is the sickness of today's so-called modern living. It is ok to be to aspire to be ... or have something but it is never ok to go on comparing and fighting and wishing. It is the latter which is the undoing of a person cos it is psychological and if unrecognized becomes a habit.
comparing will never end if one do not understand the full meaning of Contentation
.. at that NS age....most right-minded guys will have the ego feeling when they go out with their gfs who earn more than them...normal..
the system has no choice....they need to build SAF and yet cannot pay us all for high risk and unlimited liabilities...with the deaths reported at so young an age...how do u want to compare? using S$9K?
it is already contentious without even comparing
TS, remember you are not alone in this situation.
Every guys in ns feel the same sh*t.
Get done with the 2 donkey usless ns.
After rod, get yourself employ and take up night class to upgrade yourself.
Anyway, dont think too far, finish up that donkey useless 2 yrs of ns.