Hmmm.............i suppose this should be posted here......i can't be sure........but if wrong, help move to correct one............TQ
Here i go:
Ok, i confessed to her i like her very much, but she told me she has a lousy character.....bad attitude.............
she said it twice to me in a firm manner
Will you people believe this kind of reason? To me, it is crap.........
(BTW: We are comfortable around each other)
maybe she is trying to test you reaction....
so that you have less expectations of her....if she were to go with you in future
gals r like this...in a nutshell...they want u to accept and be nice and forgiving to her no matter how bad she is....
if u have an equal bad attitude....ermmm...i think love sparks will fly ....hehe
aiyah..........Milo..............u still don't know what she trying to say meh ?
she don't want you lah................LOL
hey Milo. that's harsh man. take heart bro.
hmmm... if you guys are comfortable around each other doesn't necessarily mean that you guys are compatible with each other. it just means that maybe as friends, you guys are willing to overlook certain points about each other that might potentially annoy you.
she tells you that you has a bad attitude and lousy character. it's perfectly normal that she made it clear to you that you two shouldn't get together, at least in her opinion. while on the surface it really sucks, but if you add a litle perspective, it just means that she cares enough about your friendship that she doesn't want to take the risk. what if things don't work out? it'll be very difficult for you two to become friends again. no matter how close you become again after things don't turn out the way you want it to, there would still be some sense of awkwardness.
her reason might sound like crap to you, but remember that in a relationship it takes two hands to clap. it might not sound justified to you, but to her it probably makes perfect sense.
now i wanna ask you though, how much do you like her? back to what i was saying at first... friends are willing to overlook. if you get together as a couple the flaws in the other person might become even more prominent. i'm not saying she's a bad person, i'm saying that everyone has their own flaws. nobody is perfect. so yeah, how much do you like her? if you really love her, and really care for her, you would definitely be willing to overlook these flaws in her character. it's an almost impossible thing to do, cause if it was possible, there wouldn't be any conflicts in this world. but if you really love her, then it's easy. if you really love her, you should let her know. not just by words, by actions as well. you should let her know how you really feel, and how much she means to you.
all these may sound like cliches but then again, there's a reason why these things could be called cliches. cause most cliches are true. people only realise it when they actually go through certain experiences in their lives.
I hope I've been of help haha. all these is only from my own experiences. i don't really know much but then again at least i know a little bit. all the best man.
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
Hmmm.............i suppose this should be posted here......i can't be sure........but if wrong, help move to correct one............TQ
Here i go:
Ok, i confessed to her i like her very much, but she told me she has a lousy character.....bad attitude.............
she said it twice to me in a firm manner
Will you people believe this kind of reason? To me, it is crap.........
(BTW: We are comfortable around each other)
She is indirectly rejecting you.
If you want, you can directly ask her will she be your gf or not. The answer is pretty obvious though.
Total Crap!! Bad character is intrinsic and will affect everyone she comes in contact with. Shes just using the tried and tested way of rejection called "Its not U! its me!"
Although it may just mean that you are not currently in contention. If you want, just keep being sweet. Most girls will come to like the sweetness they used to hate(or is indifferent). Of cos in the mean time you can be on the lookout of alternatives. <3
Court her. By next year's Valentine's Day if she goes out with you, you know where you are in her heart. If not, she meant it when she warns you she is bad.Means you no chance lor.
Don't read too much into her answer. Just continue to be a friend to her, besides there are more fishes in the sea.
"Ok, i confessed to her i like her very much, but she told me she has a lousy character.....bad attitude............".
she is telling u u got a fuking lousy character and a bad attitude
she is telling u to fuk off
she means to say:"hey, take it or leave it...i m like that one....who cares if u like me or not? be fren ...its ok....anyway free meals and drinks...and one tupid man to accompany when i cannot find a spare..."...and the subconscious meanings are endless
haiz....one statement could reveal so much.....she may be going after Van Houten/ Cadbury hot chocolate .....your Milo tin is rusted and stashed with her unwanted stockings....
dun mind...jus helping to interpret....
Sometimes the lady just wanna play 'hard-to -get'. A faint guy will not win a fair lady.If you like her, just perservere to go after her but give yourself a reasonable time frame. If she totally doesn't wanna be on dates with you, doesn't fancy talking to you much, then you know is time to look at other directions.At the mean time, enjoy the friendship.
3 months is more than sufficient....modern love is no longer about sky long earth deep ..
be a smart lover too
Originally posted by metalxx:hey Milo. that's harsh man. take heart bro.
hmmm... if you guys are comfortable around each other doesn't necessarily mean that you guys are compatible with each other. it just means that maybe as friends, you guys are willing to overlook certain points about each other that might potentially annoy you.
she tells you that you has a bad attitude and lousy character. it's perfectly normal that she made it clear to you that you two shouldn't get together, at least in her opinion. while on the surface it really sucks, but if you add a litle perspective, it just means that she cares enough about your friendship that she doesn't want to take the risk. what if things don't work out? it'll be very difficult for you two to become friends again. no matter how close you become again after things don't turn out the way you want it to, there would still be some sense of awkwardness.
her reason might sound like crap to you, but remember that in a relationship it takes two hands to clap. it might not sound justified to you, but to her it probably makes perfect sense.
now i wanna ask you though, how much do you like her? back to what i was saying at first... friends are willing to overlook. if you get together as a couple the flaws in the other person might become even more prominent. i'm not saying she's a bad person, i'm saying that everyone has their own flaws. nobody is perfect. so yeah, how much do you like her? if you really love her, and really care for her, you would definitely be willing to overlook these flaws in her character. it's an almost impossible thing to do, cause if it was possible, there wouldn't be any conflicts in this world. but if you really love her, then it's easy. if you really love her, you should let her know. not just by words, by actions as well. you should let her know how you really feel, and how much she means to you.
all these may sound like cliches but then again, there's a reason why these things could be called cliches. cause most cliches are true. people only realise it when they actually go through certain experiences in their lives.
I hope I've been of help haha. all these is only from my own experiences. i don't really know much but then again at least i know a little bit. all the best man.
All these i know way b4 hand................but i can't control my emotions.............damn.......anyway, i already moved on..................
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
All these i know way b4 hand................but i can't control my emotions.............damn.......anyway, i already moved on..................
Wow that's fast man. Hmmmm. If you've truly moved on, I guess it's good for you man. But from my own experiences it's not that easy... Might seem that you've moved on but that's only on the surface. Well at least that's for me, I don't know about you so yeah. But if you really like her, I think it's worth a try.
But um, just keep a lookout yeah, 'sall I'm saying. And all the best man.
Originally posted by metalxx:Wow that's fast man. Hmmmm. If you've truly moved on, I guess it's good for you man. But from my own experiences it's not that easy... Might seem that you've moved on but that's only on the surface. Well at least that's for me, I don't know about you so yeah. But if you really like her, I think it's worth a try.
But um, just keep a lookout yeah, 'sall I'm saying. And all the best man.
Yeah, thanks
but how do i deal with those kaypoh male colleagues?
cos they know we 2 haben talk to each other for 1 month plus already and they wun give up until they know what's going on.....they are more kaypoh than women, let me tell you
we gals are like this want like, we talk about our characters and attitudes when we are close to somebody, then see if he can take it or not, if he dun mind, we will be in a better peace of mind to carry on the relationship, dun say later when together, we get angry and you start to complain here and there, then we may take our high heel and knock hard on your head. Remember, gals have good memory in relationship hor. What you promise and said now, shall be taken as evidences during disturbing times.
monsieur milo,
wear an Armani suit,bring her to french restaurant.....dun ferget to drive her back in yer Ferrari sports car!
hey gals like that are similar to that dude n wife in Lord of War movie.
most important u got make her laugh everyday n make her happy at werk or not???hey....this on enot dare n will....more like happy and kappy method.
if u dun even have the time to make your boss laugh during werk....ferget abt time licking her up....save your time building fortune is better.....then even the mermaids will come ashore to sing for u
She rejected
Ts, she's trying not to hurt you if you want to be with her.
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
Hmmm.............i suppose this should be posted here......i can't be sure........but if wrong, help move to correct one............TQ
Here i go:
Ok, i confessed to her i like her very much, but she told me she has a lousy character.....bad attitude.............
she said it twice to me in a firm manner
Will you people believe this kind of reason? To me, it is crap.........
(BTW: We are comfortable around each other)
Did she say she don't like you?
Originally posted by Fcukpap:if u dun even have the time to make your boss laugh during werk....ferget abt time licking her up....save your time building fortune is better.....then even the mermaids will come ashore to sing for u
ya, and those mermaids will same same as those indo and pinoy maids, love money only.
Originally posted by parn:
Did she say she don't like you?
No, she like everyone, but love no one