My gf have a horrible attitude
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fuck her hard hard, make her preg.. then disappear....
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
your rebound last 1.5 years?
Nope, lasted 2 years. The rebound bf was never "the one", Just someone to take out my frustration and misery on.
He was simply "conveniently" there.
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Just use her as a toy and find a better one as your wife lah.She's doing the same to you anyway.
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Firstly, how old are you and how old is she? age difference plays a part
secondly, is she a singaporean? what is her race and what is your race? this plays a part...no doubt. Don't deny the fact that age and race aren't factors to consider in a relationship
thirdly, what is your educational level as well as her's ?
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Nope, lasted 2 years. The rebound bf was never "the one", Just someone to take out my frustration and misery on.
He was simply "conveniently" there.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Ying Jung Minx,
You are her REBOUND boyfriend.
You understand the meaning of REBOUND boyfriend ?
I used to treat my REBOUND boyfriend the SAME way she is treating you now.
When the one she really "wants" come along, you will be HISTORY.
And no, she won't treat "the one" the same way she treats you.
She will do the opposite.
You are still very important because You are her DOORMAT, she needs someone to clean off her dirty boots on.
Simple enough ? Ok Good.
Girls will cry father cry mother and play victim when it happens to them. And yet this is something they themselves do. Its more prudent to look after your own interests first. Ad treat courtship as an audition. A test of goodness of fit.
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Break up and find another girl.
Actually just break up and concentrate on your studies and career first......
Later after a few years the girls would be more mature, and so are you.
So it would be better then.
For now dont stress yourself.
Do the right thing.
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"But there was something strange that happened last night, she treated me fairly better than average when i asked her 'what are you so mad about? she shouted at me nothing! and a few hours later, 360degree change."
Whoa man.
You are looking at some personality disorder (bi-polar, OCD ??) here. One who has little control over her feelings. She has an extremely sensitive fuse and a very short one at that. A simple remark would set her off. Some thing like "Ai ya! Why don't you take bus No. 14?" and she will snap at you and scold you in public. And if you try to tell her it is an innocent remark, the quarrel will escalate with historical incidents. Then later she will talk to you as if nothing happened. You will never know what can be said to her and what not to say. And if she gives you something to eat, you better eat it, or she will take it that you hate her and there'll be another temper tantrum.
Don't be fooled by the turn around, she is sick. And can maul you one day if her thoughts snowball over insignificant matters.
You been warned.
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Originally posted by Yingjunminx:
okay, i have a gf for 1 1/2 years now. and from the start until now, she have never treated me nice or right.But in the past i usually tolerated it, for i love her alot and i believe deep down she loves me too, but now, im emotionally drained.
In the beginning, while she was with me, she kept thinking of her ex-bf and need him to stay by her side like SMS her meet her often etc. to the extend of sending him i miss you so much kinda msges. At those times i wanted to leave, but she kept holding me back, saying she need me as well. We quarreled and fought over this but in the end, she gave him up, in that romantic kind of way. but theyare neutral friends now.
After that issue, i thought everything was going to be fine but it was just the beginning. As we grew closer, her true colours came out. She would attitude me or not respond to me talking to her for absolutely no reason or for minor reasons like for eg. me giving her the wrong color of the towels or if i cant hear what she is saying cause sometimes she talks really dam soft. We have occasional quarrels over this and the cycle always goes like this. She starts throwing tantrum > me Confronting her > She throws even bigger longer tantrums > until i have to apologize and wait for 3-7days til she cools down.
Then, she got a part time job at the same company as me, but different working locations. Every morning, she would throw tantrum and give attitude because i am not ready preparing, or prepare slower than her every morning (She lives with me). and the reason she gives is I didnt pack her bag for her, or she is tired sleepy. Until i had enough, i started feeling numb and not giving a dam. but she noticed my change, i really wanted a clean break but she kept threatening me with suicide and stuff like that and kept forcing me to take off to accompany her but i really cant.until i quitted my job as i cannot take the pressure.
After that incident, feeling guilty of the way i treated her during the phase in the above paragraph, i treated her even better than i used to, and no confrontation nothing if she starts her nonsense. i just 'bao rong' embrace her. And she had never done anything for me before, even if i ask her to pass me a tissue something like that. this continued until recently.
Today. For the past week she've been throwing tantrums in the morning, like that period of time she went to work (now shes studying) and throwing tantrums after school for being tired. i really cant take this anymore. until a few days ago, i couldnt take off on her off day(from private school), she started contacting her another ex-bf whom they had a physical r/s with. meaning just sexual. I couldnt take it. As i do not have any evidence, (she would say, we are just friends what now.) i cant say anything, but because of me not being able to accompany her for one day. she have to do this to me. Dear forummers, what should i do????
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLS...
What you really should be asking yourself is "does she give good head ?"
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No matter how good the sex is.. I dont need those extra mental stress.
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Be single and happier. Have your type of GF is too damaging to the mind....
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dump her for good. move on fin d a new better decent queit pretty babe. with good temper of coursde.
my boss is 52 and is single- know why? because she's bad temper.
something cannot change, it's inside you.
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ya, dump her and take me, i will make you laugh everyday...but if you got no money, forget it
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I really believe that you love this girl very much and I respect that.
Sadly your gf does not treat you as her true love.
I had a friend just like you and your gf, he lasted 12 long and painfull years.
In the end he caught his gf making out in the bushes with his best friend.
When he yell at his gf and asked her why she did it. She just say "whatever" and she just countinue on having fun.
To TS if you can stand your gf having sex with another guy in front of you and feel nothing about it and can pretend that is normal for a gf to act like this, then I can only say good luck and will ask others here not to waste their time on you.
Btw my friend jump and died cos he could not take it and the gf just laugh at him for being such a fool and went on with her life.
I do not wish to see another bro suffer like my friend did.
Is up to you to put an end to this and no one could help you but yourself.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
ya, dump her and take me, i will make you laugh everyday...but if you got no money, forget it
How much do you charge ? -
what? you want a postive or negative charge? i go get the live wire first...
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Yes, time to dump it off from your chest and move on.
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Just move on...even she threaten to commit suicide....just tell her u can't stop her from doing tat.....u must not be experienced in love...><".....sounds like what happens to me during my first love....eventually u be numb to all this.....just kick her out of the house....tell her it is time both of you move on...no matter wat she do....just act like u HECK CARE....treat her as dirt......u be a better man single dude....><"
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TS, do you ever has sex with her in the first place?
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Originally posted by Yingjunminx:
Okay thanks. I will consider the break up but i need to know the answer.
because in my opinion if she deep down somewhere truly loves me, i wont let her go. its hard to find 2 person who loves each other
anyway i really treat her 100% best, sacrifices, love everything i gave her. so why wont she put me as the best in her heart
and seriously ive seen all her ex and everything, I have to admit im hotter than all of them. so not bragging, but ive actually trounce every single man in her life, but why she still treats me like this?
WAHGot pic or not?
Anywayz I think your gf has some issues that you don't know about.
Until you get to the root of the prob you won't know how to deal with her.
It'll be difficult, but if you really want to be with her and think it's worth it, then this would be one solution to consider.
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Originally posted by mancha:
"But there was something strange that happened last night, she treated me fairly better than average when i asked her 'what are you so mad about? she shouted at me nothing! and a few hours later, 360degree change."
Whoa man.
You are looking at some personality disorder (bi-polar, OCD ??) here. One who has little control over her feelings. She has an extremely sensitive fuse and a very short one at that. A simple remark would set her off. Some thing like "Ai ya! Why don't you take bus No. 14?" and she will snap at you and scold you in public. And if you try to tell her it is an innocent remark, the quarrel will escalate with historical incidents. Then later she will talk to you as if nothing happened. You will never know what can be said to her and what not to say. And if she gives you something to eat, you better eat it, or she will take it that you hate her and there'll be another temper tantrum.
Don't be fooled by the turn around, she is sick. And can maul you one day if her thoughts snowball over insignificant matters.
You been warned.
Lol sounds more like borderline personality disorder than anything
=P
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SG girls, eat shit!!!!!!!!
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Aiyo
Break up lar
tis type of girl
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all i can see is that what she does is shit. if you know what you are saying, then you should know what to do.
-iDF
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Originally posted by opeth:
SG girls, eat shit!!!!!!!!
you go ask yr mother, sisters and nieces lah -
Manupulate(treat) girls base on their monthly menstral cycle. :-DUnderstand how her moodswings works is going to be advantages to you. If you know how to do, you may have better chance to saving this r/s.
Social status. Get it above her, it will mean less quarrel.
Power struggle power: Try reading resources online.
Prove to her that you don't need her and she'll come to you.