People with depression and have thoughts about suicide, don't usually talk or write so much. They keep to themselves.
Originally posted by ditzy:People with depression and have thoughts about suicide, don't usually talk or write so much. They keep to themselves.
yes agreed with Ditzy , TS might have the though, but he isnt going to do anything.
might just post for fun. in this case every1 have though of escape using suicide when they encounter even minior porblem.
i stop wasting my time with this post
Agreed.
TS dont do but only ts need some advices and what to do.
Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:Do you have a source?
there's a story reported in the US mainstream news last year so i didn't make this up...........a boy claimed that he was a US pilot shot down and killed in Philippines in WW2.............
parents brought him to see surviving members of his squadron and boy knew the nicknames of the pilots and also what they did while at the airbase...........
boy then met the surviving sister of the dead pilot and he knew her nickname............intimate details of their family..........and even about the 2 paintings of them both...............the sister said only she and dead pilot knew about the 2 paintings.............
for sources of proof of reincarnation you better ask the guys in Buddhism forum...........
anyway........i read an article from Western scientists that they say not only does reincarnation makes sense.............it's necessary..............
### Christians believed in reincarnation until around 600AD...............after hundreds of years the popes realized a HUGE HUGE loophole in the man-made religion................
if people are being reincarnated..................then who the heck is in heaven ???...............LOL.........
Ts,
The causes of depression will always be rationalized by the person in it - cos the depression would need reinforcement and psychologically it is sustained by the one going thru it but such erroneous reasoning.
Having said that, depression is always cos one is unable to appreciate what is at hand, eg a job, a role . Instead of that, one tends or gravitates towards fulfilling what others assume is right/wrong/good/bad ... ( add on) and also the conceptualized models (eg, what love ought to be, what life ought to be, what success ought to be) add more to the ''damage''.
One compares, one idealizes and the chronic wanting to escape one's perceived circumstance/situation as not ''right'' and when not realized makes one feel stuck and wasting away.
Frankly, it is not so. It is the unacceptance of what one is that permeates one's being ... and percolating to one's doings.
Medication is merely going to suppress and keep at bay what one feels is undesirable or unfulfilled or ..... Psychotherapy is temporal and what is unreconciled within will eventually surface. The wise stance would be to understand oneself and love oneself n aceept oneself and then go about living.
Ps - I merely skimmed and made some suggestions and assumptions. It is for TS to be self-honest and transcend the dichotomizing,polarising ....
the ts is not active bahz
but well.
i am unhappy as well
i am still young yet i do not get to enjoy what other teens my age are doing
clubbing, have friends hang out with frens, do crazy fun stuff etc
sad
study ...
then family not rich.
material things also no have
how sad
i have thought
if world cld juz end in 2012, not a bad thing
i also hoping 2012 for real leh...............
ya i dun mind if everyone lives end ...
i mean but i am scared if alien come n cut us up that will be suffering :(:(
Originally posted by cutepanpan:ya i dun mind if everyone lives end ...
i mean but i am scared if alien come n cut us up that will be suffering :(:(
盼盼....why be so fatalistic.....life is deterministically yours if and only if u learn how to fight out of the crapbox
there was a tale of a gal who wanted to buy new shoes and keep complaining to her grandpa that her frens have all bought theirs..........till she saw someone begging without a pair of feet
so be contented with what u have ...of course u can buy a pair if it is broken...;p
Always know that you are not alone. You can come to sgforum to just let some steam off...
Living is harder but giving up and dying is not going to solve anything. Live strong & be brave.
All problems can be resolved along the way. Have patience, have strength.
If you get sick, sad, depressed, you will add burden to your mom and grandma.
Your mind thinks about all these things. You might not have everything but don't let all these things around you define yourself. You are just believing the things that your mind is telling you.... you will go crazy cause your mind is just spinning the wheel but I can only tell you its not real... the worry is not real. If you only step out, you will see.
Originally posted by ditzy:People with depression and have thoughts about suicide, don't usually talk or write so much. They keep to themselves.
D, partially true.... sometimes it finds expression in words, in drawing, in other ways... but sucide is not mentioned unless to a very close person but often freaking people out. So that's why truly depressed people don't talk and live in their mind fantasizing about how they will die in the most beautiful way. So beautiful. It can be so real.
Originally posted by Fcukpap:there was a tale of a gal who wanted to buy new shoes and keep complaining to her grandpa that her frens have all bought theirs..........till she saw someone begging without a pair of feet
so be contented with what u have ...of course u can buy a pair if it is broken...;p
gosh this is a damn touching example, where u get this from...??? invent one, or heard from elsewhere
yea. u are right, the moral of the story is to tell us to be contented with wad we have, as there are alway ppl who have it worst then us...
n stop complaining n live life as usual thanks!!
ts
i dun think of suicide.. i think of getting killed in accident so at least insurance can claim wahaha..
if u suspect u got depression then it is ok to go see a psychaitrist lor
taking medication also alright ma if it help
aiya, dont think too much lor, one day pass one day lor
Originally posted by ditzy:People with depression and have thoughts about suicide, don't usually talk or write so much. They keep to themselves.
Right on the button!!
Originally posted by Gno25:ts
i dun think of suicide.. i think of getting killed in accident so at least insurance can claim wahaha..
when you are dead how do you claim insurance?
Originally posted by ditzy:People with depression and have thoughts about suicide, don't usually talk or write so much. They keep to themselves.
you are right.
like most people encountering difficulties in life the TS thinks of ending his life to get out. its not depression. just negative thoughts.
Originally posted by single_alone:
when you are dead how do you claim insurance?
lol not u claim lah.. must let ur family know lor
Mai Kay Siao Lah!Low income people still can use computer and internet?You fool who?Be thankful that you don't need to beg for money to survive.
now then i know exercising will cure depression, it will also make u happy, lol
Originally posted by BotaHead:if u suspect u got depression then it is ok to go see a psychaitrist lor
taking medication also alright ma if it help
aiya, dont think too much lor, one day pass one day lor
yalor, sign of depression for man usually coincide with hair dropping till bota or bald. If you still have a bunch of hair, you may not be in depression, just a normal saddness, for this, you can overcome it by doing thing that you like, thing meaning healthy thing, not sex or drinking hor
Originally posted by BotaHead:now then i know exercising will cure depression, it will also make u happy, lol
Exercise as a treatment for depression
Exercise Can Help Beat Depression
sure, but depend on what or which type of Exercise
not me dats for sure..
sure, u collect dead bodies only