I like her,but she doesnt,another girls likes me,but I dun
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Sometimes we settle with the ones that likes us....as we grew older, the choices become lesser...and we become not so choosy...Hahaha!
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Some got no more choice liao
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Some got no more choice liao
Agreed....so in the end also get married ...no love no choice....Hahaha!
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Some got no more choice liao
Agreed....so in the end also get married ...no love no choice....Hahaha!
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Agreed....so in the end also get married ...no love no choice....Hahaha!
I call it "marriage of convenience"There are many peoples who married for the sake of saying "I am married", but relationship is not there, peoples who bought wife, marry at old age, divert relatives and friends gossip and critics are most likely pressure to marry for convenience sake. Both parties married for different reason other than Love. Just like sg men who buy or married viet or prc gals, they married to settle down and have partner, the gals married them for a better living and perhaps become a PR or citizens, different objectives
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Originally posted by angel7030:
I call it "marriage of convenience"There are many peoples who married for the sake of saying "I am married", but relationship is not there, peoples who bought wife, marry at old age, divert relatives and friends gossip and critics are most likely pressure to marry for convenience sake. Both parties married for different reason other than Love. Just like sg men who buy or married viet or prc gals, they married to settle down and have partner, the gals married them for a better living and perhaps become a PR or citizens, different objectives
We make use of each other....that's a fact of being humans.
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
We make use of each other....that's a fact of being humans.
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
We make use of each other....that's a fact of being humans.
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in this world, where got 100% one, believing in 100% stuff are usually..nerddddd..
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Originally posted by angel7030:
in this world, where got 100% one, believing in 100% stuff are usually..nerddddd..
Growing old is part of life, not having "the other half" also nevermind as long as we stay happy !
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Growing old is part of life, not having "the other half" also nevermind as long as we stay happy !
not everyone will grow old, some before grow old, already gone, pity tho. Therefore there is no 100% that you enjoy to grow old, in my teaching, the ability to grow old and walk the end of life is a blessing, not a torture or something of a worry, should be a celebration, welcome the old instead of everyday wasting time and money worrying it and trying hard to look and stay young is much better ya. Positive thinking. -
maybe the TS just dreaming, actually non of the girls like him.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
not everyone will grow old, some before grow old, already gone, pity tho. Therefore there is no 100% that you enjoy to grow old, in my teaching, the ability to grow old and walk the end of life is a blessing, not a torture or something of a worry, should be a celebration, welcome the old instead of everyday wasting time and money worrying it and trying hard to look and stay young is much better ya. Positive thinking.Yup...to be alive and to have the honour of experiencing life is a good thing....
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Originally posted by Fire Cracker:
maybe the TS just dreaming, actually non of the girls like him.
quite true, lots of guy have illusion of being love, but actually there is no love, but what to do, without illusion, they can hardly past their life. Let them be -
Originally posted by angel7030:
quite true, lots of guy have illusion of being love, but actually there is no love, but what to do, without illusion, they can hardly past their life. Let them beLove is an illusion, everything is emptiness and emptiness is everything....perception determines reality.....
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ah! but within the emptyiness, lies the true.
My master once answered my question as follow
Master nun of the Hwa mountain: Lingmei, what are you thinking? go kitchen steal food again??
Lingmei: no lah, master, i am just wondering, if buddha keep teach emptyiness in to us in his empty sutra, that was is the point of life, simply nothing
Master: So far, among my disciplines, only you bring up this question, this show that you think well, very smart too. Listen Lingmei, the meaning of empty in buddha teaching is not about totally emptyiness, in true, it is to forgive, and if can, forget and move on. In whatever we do, we need to have a empty mind inorder to be conscious of what we are doing, if your mind is full of thinking of what that is not suppose to think about anymore, you cannot concentrate on the next thing that you are going to do. To enter Nirvana, you need to empty all of what you have here and before. Look at the rubbish bin, if in the morning you do not clear it, then nobody can throw their rubbish, because the bin had become full. Empty oneself mind before going to work, study or simply shopping is good for health and one consciousness.
Lingmei: Thank you master for the teaching, i go empty the rubbish bin first...run!!!
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emptiness is good. today one low educated store guy press the 'loading/ unloading button' when he exit and i entered the lift. i wonder why he did that - to test me?
this is only what thye are good at, press lift, write on the last line. what little they know they will use it. come on. face it. forever will be like that no matter how smart that moment in life you think you are.
just remmebr, you don;t lik epeople, you think people like you also?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
Agreed....so in the end also get married ...no love no choice....Hahaha!
those type are really stupid. in life there's more to it than parktor and get married. i see lots of them. have to get married eventually. love? really is there? they know better. must get mariied must get married. even no love must also get married. that's why you see so many cross-matironality marriage? really love? chio kao peng -
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
those type are really stupid. in life there's more to it than parktor and get married. i see lots of them. have to get married eventually. love? really is there? they know better. must get mariied must get married. even no love must also get married. that's why you see so many cross-matironality marriage? really love? chio kao pengIn the end...everybody is lonely, whether married or not, no difference....
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
emptiness is good. today one low educated store guy press the 'loading/ unloading button' when he exit and i entered the lift. i wonder why he did that - to test me?
this is only what thye are good at, press lift, write on the last line. what little they know they will use it. come on. face it. forever will be like that no matter how smart that moment in life you think you are.
just remmebr, you don;t lik epeople, you think people like you also?
at times, the less you know, the better it is, because of us craving for knowledge, we segregate ourselves into classes, ending up the upper one do not understand the lower one and the lower one also do not understand the upper one.If I am good in pressing lift to pass my day, so what, you good in yr IT that is your business, and bear in mind, you need to study and work hard on it, the question here is back to shakespear philosophy, to be or not to be?
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
In the end...everybody is lonely, whether married or not, no difference....
lonely with a smile or lonely with saddness is different, single tends to talk single good, marry will said marrying is good, just like driving honda said honda good, driving hyundai said hyundai better. People have ego and pride in them, understandable, but over egostics and pride can end up with negative thoughts. Finally, learn to respect each other ego and pride, believe me, it will be a better world for you to live in. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
lonely with a smile or lonely with saddness is different, single tends to talk single good, marry will said marrying is good, just like driving honda said honda good, driving hyundai said hyundai better. People have ego and pride in them, understandable, but over egostics and pride can end up with negative thoughts. Finally, learn to respect each other ego and pride, believe me, it will be a better world for you to live in.You have quite a point there....its about ego....very true!
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Originally posted by Demon Bane:
You have quite a point there....its about ego....very true!
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Originally posted by angel7030:
I only got two points to show... Very funny! Anyway, will you settle for the man that likes you or the man that you like? -
Originally posted by Demon Bane: Very funny! Anyway, will you settle for the man that likes you or the man that you like?
in life, there is nothing much to settle about, remember, humans are like same as animal, just that we are the most intelligent, but we do hv the instinct to migrate, as herd move and bird fly from one place to another, humans are the same, they dun like to be stagnant in one place, they like to move around, from point A to B to C, so I will not just settle now just becos i like someone or someone like me, i prefer to be free and able to migrate wherever I want, to roam the world with no worries. And if any man really loves me, he must have the same passion as me, to be free from all those husband and wife stuff, free from relationship problem, just be happy and travel the world or place as and when we like.But hor, this type of man, very hard to find, only in those old days nomads who travel from silk road to changi road, you can find such people.