Should I confront situation or hide?
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This is not a serious problems.
Go to the wedding and congrat them.
Treat everything as normal.
If you already spoke to your cousing (which I feel that you SHOULD NOT TO), then I think you better dont approach your cousin till after wedding or when there is time to talk to him.
For your side, attend the wedding as usual.
Nothing to be shy or shameful about.
Overall, it is not a serious problem as you have posted.
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aiyo...silence is golden, why the need to play hero? you say nothing and not attend the wedding would have been the perfect solution...there are things best left unsaid...now you have only made it worse...what were you thinking?...i think you've watched too many sappy romance movies....good luck...
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I think next time when the cousin is overseas and the girl is lonely, he can go over for free sex with her
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u also not fall in love with your cousin you talk what to your cousin
you don't come here and bluff us lah
go and join ��横溢 bah or you can also try 投稿写剧本
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Breaking news
Yesterday night my parents went to my cousin parents apmt to help them with wedding preparation and to talk. Since we live nearby. I also tumpang.
I found courage to overcome my paisehness and told everything to my cousin. He did not give any reaction, he just keep quiet and went back to his chores. The girl was not there. When I try to talk to him, he pretended to be busy and give me one word answer. So inconvenient to talk because all the relative around. I could not get chance to isolate him alone and talk to him. I scared relatives will hear.
I am now so worry. What to do now? My cousin is giving me silent treatment.
Wat you told your cousin?
Its not as if you fucked the girl liao...... don worry lah......
but on 2nd thoughts, you better be careful oso...... sekali wedding night use chopper to hacked you to death..........
nowadays humans siao one.......
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The cousin damn childish.
I presume around 25 years old or thereabouts.
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Originally posted by trolol:
if got son how
go sex change? -
the cousin can blackmail him....
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Surprise number 3
you and her found an opportunity to have sex, she takes of her pants and she has a dick!
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The 3 of you are worse than primary school kids.
So damn childish.
And 2 of them getting married some more.
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Historical background
I join this co 8 mth ago. I start out project with this lady, she is 25. We did a lot of project together and we spoke a lot, went out dinner as a group, when we werk late. Then I got interested in her and sometime I call her phone to discuss project. I thought she is single. So I decided to ask her out. I text her once. Ask her to eat dinner with me. She answer one day later, she say no with excuse. Then I try again, also same result. Third try, this time I confess I like her. This time she tell me to forget her. fail.
Surprise no.1
Turn out that the girl is going to get married but she never say anything like that to me. For 8 month we work in projects, I thought she was single. Only yesterday I found out she was going to get marry. So how?
Surprise no.2: She is going to marry my cousin. So embarassing. My cousin mother is my mother's younger sister. So how? So how?
I did not know at 1st but when I saw my mother pass me the wedding card and saw her name and picture.
What should I do? Should I ponteng wedding? Should I face the wedding? Will she say bad thing to my relative about me?
I am so headahe now.
What the hell you headache about !!!
Small things like that headache - still call yourself a man.
Like chinese say - "can take up and put down". Why you so granny and aunty.
You just a colleague - you never close to her enough for her to tell you, and you never ask. So what even if everyone know - just laugh it off as a man, and say my cousin more lucky manage to success when you failed. People will respect you more for your gentleman and gracefulness.
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That is why ts is asking forumers answer.
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Breaking news
Yesterday night my parents went to my cousin parents apmt to help them with wedding preparation and to talk. Since we live nearby. I also tumpang.
I found courage to overcome my paisehness and told everything to my cousin. He did not give any reaction, he just keep quiet and went back to his chores. The girl was not there. When I try to talk to him, he pretended to be busy and give me one word answer. So inconvenient to talk because all the relative around. I could not get chance to isolate him alone and talk to him. I scared relatives will hear.
I am now so worry. What to do now? My cousin is giving me silent treatment.
I think you deserve to have your dick cut off !!! - call yourself a man, shame on you !!!
I feel it is the way you told him - that make a big different.
If you have done it gentlemanly and in a joking way like - "Did you know your girlfriend and me was colleage and I try so hard to date her 3 times, and failed so miserably that I alway wonder who the lucky guy was - and it have turn out to be you !!! Wow you lucky man ". I think he would have been so happy for the complement.
I think you dumb ass must have screw up and say till like the poor girl is involve with you.
repeat after me : girl and you = nothing. The poor girl did not even have a single date with you loser !!! = nothing to tell.
Repeat after me : you are a dumb ass - that need your wee to be cut off !!!
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ask yourself, which is more awkward.... go to the wedding and face them ? or don't go to the wedding and make your family wonder why you were so stubborn in not going ? you can't hide from them forever...
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Historical background
I join this co 8 mth ago. I start out project with this lady, she is 25. We did a lot of project together and we spoke a lot, went out dinner as a group, when we werk late. Then I got interested in her and sometime I call her phone to discuss project. I thought she is single. So I decided to ask her out. I text her once. Ask her to eat dinner with me. She answer one day later, she say no with excuse. Then I try again, also same result. Third try, this time I confess I like her. This time she tell me to forget her. fail.
Surprise no.1
Turn out that the girl is going to get married but she never say anything like that to me. For 8 month we work in projects, I thought she was single. Only yesterday I found out she was going to get marry. So how?
Surprise no.2: She is going to marry my cousin. So embarassing. My cousin mother is my mother's younger sister. So how? So how?
I did not know at 1st but when I saw my mother pass me the wedding card and saw her name and picture.
What should I do? Should I ponteng wedding? Should I face the wedding? Will she say bad thing to my relative about me?
I am so headahe now.
if i were you...........i'll ask the cousin if he's into wife-sharing................you never know..............
but if you're the typical S'porean..................dig the deepest hole you can and hide in there.............in fact you better start thinking of migrating to Bangladesh to avoid them in future.
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Well, if there's a bright side, TS didn't get his chance to copulate... Like everything also follow textbook instead of brain.
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if u are single, it is not wrong that u wanted to court the gal. she did not even give u clear hints she was attached or anything otherwise you would have backed off faster.just go to the wedding and say 'oh my! i always thought u were single! but great to know my cousin and u are together! my cousin is a great guy! '....whatever ...
to your cousin, just tell him you didn't know she was attached to him until recently but congrats him and wish him well.
time will heal all embarrassment.sooner or later u will also find your dream gal and all will shut up. dun worry!
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TS should share the girl with his cousin
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Breaking news
Yesterday night my parents went to my cousin parents apmt to help them with wedding preparation and to talk. Since we live nearby. I also tumpang.
I found courage to overcome my paisehness and told everything to my cousin. He did not give any reaction, he just keep quiet and went back to his chores. The girl was not there. When I try to talk to him, he pretended to be busy and give me one word answer. So inconvenient to talk because all the relative around. I could not get chance to isolate him alone and talk to him. I scared relatives will hear.
I am now so worry. What to do now? My cousin is giving me silent treatment.
You can kill your cousin and then marry her, or you can kill yourself in absolute shame and dishonour. -
OWN UP
apologise to her that you didnt know and congrat your cousin that he got the most beautiful woman in the world and wish him happiness
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Lol so suay sia
And y u so dumb go tell ur cousin
U shld have settled things with the gal first and hope that she wun tell anyone. Like tt still can meet without feeling awkward.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
i think she will be more embarrassed than you ....
why should you hide..be a man...isn't it a natural course of things for a guy to fall for a gal...if any gal think the guy should have checked all encumbrances before falling in love....then i would say she is nuts...
go for th wedding and offer your best wishes....all the best romantic secrets have always been buried with the fondest memories and if u like ....turn it into a humour...life is filled with ironic humours....life is full of love's labour lost....
get on and find a much better gal
i have mentioned it....why should you hide..be a man...isn't it a natural course of things for a guy to fall for a gal...if any gal think the guy should have checked all encumbrances before falling in love....then i would say she is nuts...
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no integrity. see any girl also wnat to date and court. only the own mother and grandma he don;t wanna court and chase only.
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Originally posted by seyKai:
OWN UP
apologise to her that you didnt know and congrat your cousin that he got the most beautiful woman in the world and wish him happiness
Most beautiful woman in the world?That's too over the line already.
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Originally posted by parn:
Most beautiful woman in the world?That's too over the line already.
well, all the girls I met are the most beautiful ones