help..
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Hey, i'm new here. so please treat me well :)
there was this girl i met when i was in sec 1, so it was like a love at first sight. that girl and i grew really close, and become couple-like when i was in mid sec 2. but the thing is that she had never really treated me well, I've always been the one. friends who can sees how well i treated always tell me to leave her, or not treat her too well, cos i'm like a puppet to her. she already have a bf, and i'm like his replacement/spare tire. although i know that i'm just a spare tire, i couldn't leave her simply because it's already love. her bf hates me, because i seem more like a bf, compared to him.
and here's where my prob steps in..
i have a classmate whom i wasn't really close with, and at times when i'm really sad, she'll come to me and comfort me, try to cheer me up etc. she earned my trust really quickly, and i told her about the first girl. [so now, let the first girl be M, and the second be A]
A constantly checked on me, and texted me to keep me company, and not too long later, i realised i fell for her. friends who knew i liked her also told me to go for it, since she's a really awesome girl. and she knows that i like her, cos one of my friend told her.
it's been about half a year since i fell in love with her, and now i still love her alot.
but she and i fell out a month ago, and she heartlessly walked out. she apologised a couple of days later, but until now, we haven't talked. talking to her would probably irritate her, and i don't wish to irritate her.
I've lived most of my life, alone. and i was really glad when she promised to never leave me. she's like, a treasure in my life. someone who understood me so well, someone willing to sacrifice for me, and a very selfless and mature person. i don't wish to lose her..in fact, i wish to be with her D:
can someone tell me what to do? :(((
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Stay single till you're 26, you'll not regret it.
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why?
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are you a les?
cos your avatar look like a girl
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Originally posted by zwiFany:
Hey, i'm new here. so please treat me well :)
there was this girl i met when i was in sec 1, so it was like a love at first sight. that girl and i grew really close, and become couple-like when i was in mid sec 2. but the thing is that she had never really treated me well, I've always been the one. friends who can sees how well i treated always tell me to leave her, or not treat her too well, cos i'm like a puppet to her. she already have a bf, and i'm like his replacement/spare tire. although i know that i'm just a spare tire, i couldn't leave her simply because it's already love. her bf hates me, because i seem more like a bf, compared to him.
and here's where my prob steps in..
i have a classmate whom i wasn't really close with, and at times when i'm really sad, she'll come to me and comfort me, try to cheer me up etc. she earned my trust really quickly, and i told her about the first girl. [so now, let the first girl be M, and the second be A]
A constantly checked on me, and texted me to keep me company, and not too long later, i realised i fell for her. friends who knew i liked her also told me to go for it, since she's a really awesome girl. and she knows that i like her, cos one of my friend told her.
it's been about half a year since i fell in love with her, and now i still love her alot.
but she and i fell out a month ago, and she heartlessly walked out. she apologised a couple of days later, but until now, we haven't talked. talking to her would probably irritate her, and i don't wish to irritate her.
I've lived most of my life, alone. and i was really glad when she promised to never leave me. she's like, a treasure in my life. someone who understood me so well, someone willing to sacrifice for me, and a very selfless and mature person. i don't wish to lose her..in fact, i wish to be with her D:
can someone tell me what to do? :(((
Are you willing to do the same for her? To be a selfless and mature person and willing to sacrifice for her?If the answer is yes, then don't waste time in here whinning about it.
GO AND TAKE THE FIRST STEP!
AND I DON'T REALLY CARE IF YOU THINK YOU WILL IRRITATE HER OR NOT, JUST MAKE SURE YOU DON'T IRRITATE HER.
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hey puppy, study first lah
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Confusing, are you a man or woman? (Your avatar)
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Originally posted by Hugh Hefner:
Confusing, are you a man or woman? (Your avatar)
man using woman avatar. so hard to catch ball?
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Originally posted by trolol:
man using woman avatar. so hard to catch ball?
Catch ball? Don't understand. Sounds like a man, I just want to make sure. -
Hugh Hefner - i'm a guy :D i'm a fan of the person in my avatar :)
Angel7030 - i do know studying is important, but i also know that i will do my best to juggle both studies and relationship.
parn - so how do i start talking to her again?
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sec 2 already you know what is love?
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Originally posted by gunner77:
sec 2 already you know what is love?
33 yrs unker come bully sec 2 eh....? -
I where got bully him?
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hey hey..what should i say to start it off..?
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so you tell her you luc her so what? faster confirm be boyfirend have to pay earlier. later then confirm pay later
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pay?
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welcome to the real world.
no money no honey.
just kidding. go call her upp and see how she reacts. maybe she just got tired of always having to take 2nd place...
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Originally posted by zwiFany:
Hugh Hefner - i'm a guy :D i'm a fan of the person in my avatar :)
Angel7030 - i do know studying is important, but i also know that i will do my best to juggle both studies and relationship.
parn - so how do i start talking to her again?
Open your mouth then start by talking to her as you normally does lor.If you really don't know how to talk to her, then forget it...because you're NOT READY for her.
Just suck more thumbs until you can figure that out.
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Sec 2....you still got years ahead of you
many things will happen when you are in your teens...MANY
Girls especially can get more bitchy. Proceed with caution when she's on period.HAhaYou can try to be serious. It might not last for many reasons.
People usually aren't scared to talk. They're just afraid of the outcome.
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i forgot to mention, she scolded me and said loads of mean stuff which made me really sad. but she apologised, saying she was really pissed that day.
i'm the one that is supposed to start talking again, but won't it make her feel awkward? its like, breaking the silence..
and yes, i'm afraid of outcomes.
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Originally posted by zwiFany:
i forgot to mention, she scolded me and said loads of mean stuff which made me really sad. but she apologised, saying she was really pissed that day.
i'm the one that is supposed to start talking again, but won't it make her feel awkward? its like, breaking the silence..
and yes, i'm afraid of outcomes.
If you're afraid, then I'm also afraid I cannot help you not to be afraid.Maybe both of you are just not destined for each other, ä½ ä»¬æœ‰ç¼˜æ— çº·ã€‚
She's better off with someone else who isn't afraid like you and you are better off with another girl whom you are not so afraid of the outcomes.
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I get the impression that you might be a little too in touch with your emotional side and very vocal about it to your closed ones, which might irk them and let's be honest, if a girl wants to find such traits, that's where her best friends comes in.
And perhaps it is your assumption that you might irritate her, so try your chance? And if it didn't end up well, time to let go and move on. I bet doing badly for Sec 3 streaming would hurt more than breaking up with the chio bu of your secondary school.
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parn - ya, probably..
Toiletries- awesome name, awesome advice. i'll try it out
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alamak. girl only do that when they scared of losing you lah. just show her u care for her. never mind all the bad things she say. just keep saying u love her, whatever the situation. can liao.
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simple problem requires a simple solution..............
just grab the girl that you can screw easily......................PROBLEM SOLVED !
*** no need to thank me............though i don't mind a 3-some once in a while............