what hurts...
- letting go of a person you've just learned to love
- reminiscing the good times you shared together
- shielding your heart to love somebody
- trying to hide what you really feel
-
trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes 
- loving a person too much
- giving up someone you never thought of giving up
- having the right love at the wrong time
- taking the risk to fall in love again
- hiding your relationship from someone else
- controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
- letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only fall
deeper
- holding back only to find out when it's too late, you both felt the
same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that
you didn't let the feelings out
- falling in love with someone you didnt mean to fall in love with
- finding the perfect girl/man...with only one prob....he/she doesnt
love you...
-
seeing the one you love crying for someone else - the waiting also hurts like hell
- having to hear "... I've met someone"
- agreeing to her wish to 'just be friends'.
- asking her freedom back bcoz 'she'd be happier with him'
-
asking you to 'forget that everything happened' and be 'normal'
friends again. - hearing that you're treated as a big bro (ouch!)
- sharing her future plans for the guy with you.
- you stopped being friends bcoz her bf asked her to.
- being denied in front of people.
- telling you lies where she'd been when actually, she was with
a 'new friend' or an 'old flame' (whew!)
- she told you she'd be leaving you to! return to her ex (the one she
left 4 you!)
- breaking someone's heart
- fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
- that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you her
commitment unless she fix himself...then, you are left hanging for
the moment...then she says, time will tell but
you still decided to keep the hope in her and trust her
-
PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying...-
PRETENDING to be strong...and RECOGNIZING your weakness
- lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can
never have... - being with someone you can't actually love...
- pretending you don't love a person whom you actually love...
- being in love...
- letting go even if you really don't want to...having no right to say
you are huting because it was your decision
- seeing the person you love hurt because of you...and not being
able to help that person...
- having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and
finding out afterwards that things will never be the same again
when he doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before
- having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely
destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you
weak and vulnerable
- admitting that you love someove despite her imperfections
- finding out that the more you try to hate her, the more you end up
loving him, perhaps even more than before
- realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.
- the thought that this girl, used to really love you and you loved
her as well kaso you didn't give enough and she gave up on you
- Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else....."
- making a promise....and realizing that when the time has come for
that promise to be delivered....the commitment is no longer there...
- the hardest thing about love - believing it exist.
After you've been hurt...
...learn to forgive
...learn to trust and love again
There are many beautiful, charming and wonderful men and women here on earth, it's just a matter of who you get to meet along the way and who you choose to end up with for the rest of your life.
"Love has its own time, season and reason. You can't ask for it to
stay. You can only embrace it when it comes and be glad that for a
moment in your life, it
was yours."
--> wear shades so as the tears fall, it falls quietly...Originally posted by icyprincess:what you said in that list is just so true. I can't help tearing when I read it. Maybe because I have been through most of them before and is still going through it right now, at this very moment....